Hey..Hey hey..
what a gorgeous beautiful day is right, here in mid North Carolina
it is almost 9am and 49 degrees..wow..sun shining and Carolina blue skies everywhere
how are your journals coming...your gratitudes...keep them going, everyday.
Change of ones-self...can be so good...
so good that we want to share this news with everyone
so they can do it too..sometimes....but in doing this,
are we offering them something new...or reminding
them...what they're not doing right in our eyes;
what we think they should be doing...I have always been a person
to share my great upbeat news of this and that...
but in recent times..I am finding that I have to be
careful...and show my happiness in my own actions...
for what is brought to me, may not be
brought to anyone else in the same way...for we all are on our own
journey and our time for learning is ours and ours alone...
©Day 21...Daily Teaching
"Never try to compel others to change;
leave them free to change naturally and orderly because
they want to; and they will want to when they
find that your change was worthwhile."
"To inspire in others a desire to change for the
better is truly noble; but this you can do only
by leaving them alone, and becoming more noble yourself."
CHRISTIAN D. LARSON (1874-1954)....Mastery of Self
Now as I mentioned about our time...that doesn't mean we can't share the
possibility of showing them something new...just as I offered
to do this group here, to over 500 people...12 wanted to join me.
(however some are more interested from the blogsite)
So not everyone is ready to change, for they don't see a need...or simply
are not ready to make any changes in their lives...that would require
recognition of things, that might not be right, they're just not ready to recognize...
(hence a reason for wanted change..
nothing needs fixing so why fix it mentality)...again I will say..things come to us,
when we are ready...and when words are said to 500 people,
it will be seen 500 different ways..
...HOWEVER...
that doesn't mean they won't see the changes in you, that you have chosen
to adjust or change from your own recognition of self...that in itself can be one of
the best advertisements for changing others...to see it in you..
the words from Christian D. Larson...are very true..and others have said them..
but not everyone has heard them...enough to understand them.
So for myself, I have had to really learn to be quiet, and let my life, and the changes
within me and it...reflect to others...some see it as wonderful..some see it as a
threat...I am happy..they are not...I have patience..they do not..I feel love for
everyone...they do not...(not that I don't get upset, I never said I was perfect)
walls go up, and ya know ..we don't have to break down every wall...
but I do feel love for everyone..even the hardest people to be around sometimes.
and for me..that has been a great change...I do feel that sometimes it is best
to avoid some people, for they simply are not good for me.
and when I say this I say it..for you all to...we don't have to talk to everyone..
we don't have to befriend everyone...but I do have an inner love for everyone
for we all came from spirit...and will go back to spirit...and the choices we make
while here, will bring us together..or separate us...but we all are on our Journey.
have a beautiful wonderful safe day...
much love
Stephanie
