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hey Friends.. I hope you're doing super and life going well for you.. I have been enjoying my life..my challenges..my lessons..my fun..my joys and everything in between as life flows. I started this group in 2009 and continued until I could not anymore. My life has been through so many great and wonderful things and some very challenging things as well. I came to a point where I felt I could no longer do this...no longer was worthy if you will, of doing this. Now on this side of it all, I can be so grateful for so much, as spiritually it all helped me along my journey in this lifetime. I had to get back to remembering who I was..where I was at, and what I had learned. At this time I am getting ready to start a new yearlong group, like we did before but with new energy and new awareness. It will also follow along with The Secret's Daily Teachings and my thoughts as before. My daughter is going off to college next week and it is all about doing that in the next 10 days for us..then I will start working on this new group/class and will give you all info on it. It also will be a year long commitment and will have some things for you to participate in everyday...it is a must for doing this, but the rewards I feel will be amazing..enlightening..and moving. If you wish to join me on this new journey, please write me at PeacefulBlessings@gmail.com and let me know, so I can be sure to get the info to you. I hope to see you there and short of any unforeseen health issue with me, (I had a back fusion 2wks ago, healing well) we will start this September 1, 2012. If you an any questions please feel free to write me as well.. many huggs n love Stephanie

Day 292...Sharing Daily Teachings and Stef's thoughts..November 4, 2010

Hey dear ones..

It's a beautiful rainy fall morning here in mid NC...our weather is really changing,
and we all are so loving it...even through the mid 20s expected this weekend..from an arctic chill coming down.

I want to ask if you have been keeping up with your journals...of your wants and your gratitude's. I know it's
harder to keep up without a reminder if you will, to remind you to do this. I have written on a piece of paper,
many days what I am grateful for and what I would love to be in my life....and sometimes I have gotten caught
up in life's hoopla...and getting back to my spirit is what I need to do everyday to bring me back to center...
as it is for all of you. When you do start writing your wants and not the absence of them...and what you
are grateful for..and not the absence of that..you will automatically start a motion within you that will move
your spirit to the forefront. And sometimes if have not done this for a bit, you will be amazed at how easy
your mind and body and spirit will follow...your thoughts...as you recognize again, your wants and gratitude's.


©Daily Teaching...Day 292

Remember, if you are criticizing, you are not being grateful. If you are blaming, you are not being grateful.
If you are complaining, you are not being grateful. If you are feeling tension, you are not being grateful.
If you are rushing, you are not being grateful. If you are in a bad mood, you are not being grateful.

Gratitude can transform your life. Are you allowing minor things to get in the way of your
transformation and the life you deserve?


Oh how I needed to read today's Daily Teaching...over and over and over today..and throughout the day.
As our thoughts go through our minds, are we bringing ourselves back to a grateful state of mind. Or are our
thoughts moving us in a negative spiral, that consumes us in our daily routines. It does NOT matter what others
do, or say or think...what matters is our own minds and what we do and say and think. It matters to our very
existence, what we do and say and think. We ONLY have control over that...and no matter what ..tomorrow will come.
And when it comes, we'll be there in our own thoughts...and if they are thoughts of gratitude, even through some
icky stuff...bring your mind to your gratitude's and to what you want..not what you don't want....you will be happy today.
You will be able to rejoice, even just inwardly...at how life is so great...how are you experiencing the best things..
and even more of the best things yet to come...our stuff will come and go, no matter what..but as we move through
some of life's stuff, we must take moments and feel our gratitude's, as it can change your life in an instant...and
we must think of what we want, not in any way..the absence of it...think about this...as you read this...read it again.

So as we get back to living our lives in a grateful mind...at least most of the time...the other times we can work on,
we can start to build again or continue to build a life of true inner peace. Remember you must acknowledge what you
are grateful for...that includes having some of your wants...for your wants are EXACTLY what you are grateful
for..even if you don't have them yet...they are right there waiting for you..to come into your life.
Do this soon...pretend you just won the lottery ..(and I use this analogy for so many things come into our lives
if we have the power through money ..quite often..to feel happiness, it's a familiar thought pattern to work with )...
so close your eyes and imagine you just won a 50 million dollar lottery..that's what you got after taxes....
how would you feel...what would you do..keeping in mind ..your doing this in a grateful mind...how is your body feeling...
how are your muscles feeling..are filled with joy..are you actually smiling...are you tearing up...
with a sense of not having to worry about bills..money..broken cars..fixing that heater/ac..doing for your family..
being able to help others...whatever it brings to you...feel this...and try to carry this feeling with you always..
It's not always easy to do this...and we tend to slip back to our old feelilngs...but once a day for a week...I want
you to do this exercise..and truly feel these feelings...and write down your feelings..what would you do..where would
you go...what would you buy...pay off...whatever..travel...these feelings are so powerful...and if you can learn to
tap into them..even without winning the lottery...how powerful is that.....what a feeling you could have everyday.
It can change your life and create for you a peaceful existence, no matter what is going on.

have a super wonderful safe and happy day

much love
Stephanie

Day 291...Sharing Daily Teachings and Stef's thoughts July 12, 2010

Hey dear ones..

I hope your day has been a really good one.
We had much rain here in mid NC...in fact we lost our Internet and phone service...so I am sending this from a neighbors Internet..for 2-3 days..wow interesting...lol

I love today's lesson, as I work everyday on this very subject of not reacting to other's actions..I so often in many days, use my secret thought shifters, before I even speak...sometimes..as it helps me to rise above the current exchange of words...and many grateful things I bring to my mind also,
I'm not there, but I'm working on it and I recognize so much more now.


©Daily Teaching...Day 291

If somebody says something negative to you, do not react.
You have to get yourself to a point where you can stay calm and peaceful inside
no matter what negative things happen on the outside.

When you can maintain peace and joy within you despite any situation on the outside,
you have become the master of everything.


Indeed, mastering this, is what we're all working towards...being in control of our thoughts...to help us bring to us...all we want and desire..physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, aurically, and materially. God and the Universe, have always done ,but want to give us abundance in our lives. However, it is us who stop this...with our thoughts and our feelings..based upon our thoughts.
And we know, quite often...others will effect how we think. So it is so important to use today's teaching in your everyday life, even at home.

When someone says a negative or a hurtful or angry thought...do this..really work on this...stop for a moment and think of a happy thought that truly makes you smile..from the inside out..perhaps it's thinking of your grandchild..as I do...or just watching the sunset on your favorite beach...or the thought of listening to someone laugh..that laughs so well..or whatever your happy thoughts
are, think of them first...for even a moment..then react to what was said or done to you. This is where the master of your Universe..your everything comes into play...it's this easy for at that moment you are in control of your actions..your reaction..your words...your body language...your expressions...your Universe...at that moment..you are in control of it..
not them........NOT THEM.
Really work on this over the next 2 wks...in a negative situation...stop and think happy thoughts..then react. Pay attention to this...you'll be amazed at how you would have reacted..but didn't.

This is what we're learning...for when you are in control of this...you are in a peaceful joyful state..that allows you to think of the things you want in your life and to truly realize what you're grateful for...which by the way is also what you want in your life...those 100 grateful thoughts...yea buddy..you want every one of them!!! That's why you are grateful for them...think about this, as you are writing your gratitude's.
And remember, thinking what you want...will bring it to you, as you mirror it to the Universe.

Have a beautiful wonderful safe n happy day

much love
Stephanie

Day 290...Sharing Daily Teachings and Stef's thoughts July 11, 2010

Hey all

It's an absolutely gorgeous day here in Mid NC...and I am happy to be in it...outside.

I am journaling some really important things I feel I need to be brought into my life. When I have truly from my heart and soul, felt incredible gratitude for something, I wanted and felt the absolute gratitude as if I had it now...I got it within 2 days...but I haven't always felt this with everything...however I do know this feeling...and when I can use it and feel automatically with everything, I will be master of my Universe...I'm working on it.

I say this..so we can continue and I can continue to never forget the power of journaling and feeling gratitude. and when we write our wants and gratitude's, it allows us to see better what we truly want and are grateful for and even on a bad day..we can feel grateful.

©Daily Teaching...Day 290

Ask yourself if in one day you think more positive thoughts than negative. Ask yourself
if in one day you speak more words of goodness, appreciation, kindness, gratitude, and love
than negative words. Ask yourself if in one day you take more actions that are based
in goodness, appreciation, kindness, gratitude, and love than any other actions.

In every moment of your day, there are two paths before you.
Take the path of goodness, for goodness' sake.



We have all be in a place where doing the right thing and not doing it, was placed directly in front of us...and we all have been in the place where, it was all about our attitude...period. So we know this, we know the difference on how a simple change in thought can change our life that day, no matter what is going on. Remembering your secret thought shifters, is so important to use....and to keep them with you at all times, even written on a small paper
in your wallet or purse. When we are thinking in a more positive mind, It's amazing how things that might upset you or others, simply don't. Recognize this when it happens, as part of your learning and understanding what this is all about...it also helps on it being more automatic in your life. and remember..what you're thinking and feeling, is what the Universe is sending to you...

This next week, pay close attention to your feelings..especially the ones that really get to you..whether positive or negative...try to be in them and yet in control. When you can do this, and realize when you are in a situation, that will bring up some kind of reactions...recognize them and feel them..and if you need to..change them, if negative or roll in them, if positive.
But be in control...that is key here, to understanding our feelings so we can be in control of them...and not the other way around.

Be sure to write in your journals, your wants and your gratitude's..each and every morning, afternoon, or evening....This so important for this to work...for as you write them..and as they come about in your life..you'll get it and when you get it..when you are in control..of all your think..not all that happens..not all of what others think and do..but what you think, then you have switched to a higher level and life can be easier for you..no matter what...and hey..you can truly bring to you, what you want..not the absence of it.


Have super wonderful day

much love
Stephanie

Day 289...Sharing Daily Teachings and Stef's thoughts July 10, 2010

Hey dear ones..

I know it's been a while, and I thank you all, for continuing to support this.

I do hope you all have been keeping up with your journals and your gratitude's.
Ya know sometimes, I just think my gratitude's through a day, especially when I am feeling a negative feeling or thought, and can't write it down at that moment...
it truly helps me get back to center and feel gratitude...which in turn, sends that out to the Universe...which we know..comes right back to us. I use it daily...I also do write in my book..my gratitude's...in the front and back pages..and sometimes on a piece of blank paper..so I can feel it as I see it...and see it as I feel it.

If you have not kept up, that's ok too...start again today...for Today is what you have now and what's going on in your life now..is what you have now.


©Daily Teaching...Day 289

It is not enough to know the principles in The Secret - you must DO them, unceasingly,every single day. You must LIVE the principles. Step by step you will become master of your thoughts and feelings, and the master of your life.

There is nothing more important than this,
because your whole future life relies on you.


Now when this talks about being master of your life...it's not taking away from your belief in a higher power...God..the Universe...or whatever your belief is...for even if you believe in it all..if you are not in control of your thoughts...your feelings..will it matter. Will it matter if you believe in your faith..your religion...and still continue to have negative thoughts and life patterns.
I think not....this is about you being in control of your life...being master of your life, so you can take in..daily..what you believe in...the good stuff...the stuff that moves you..whether in church or in a gathering place of moving conversations....on a beach...or even in a crowded noisy room.

As you take all you have learned and use it daily to return your thoughts to a positive, grateful place..no matter your situation....you are succeeding in being part of what you are here for...to learn. To learn on many levels...as we are spiritual beings having a human experience..as it takes us to places
only a human experience can. With feelings and ego and the ability to hurt and to love..to have hope and to express all you are.

So I offer to you all right now, today...to continue your journey in practicing all your have learned here...time is only that...now is what we have and for you to keep going..onward and upward..to a place of thankfulness and gratitude, as it will continue to change your life...better.
We know when we change a negative thought to a positive-grateful one..and it brings
a true to smile to our face...it's working...you just changed your life, instantly...feel that smile..roll in that feeling..if only for just a few moments...when this happens..you're getting this.


Again...thank you for continuing to be here...it means so much to me...as we journey together. Sometimes we have to wait to get back to center...then to feel it...and that's ok. We're all still here ...learning.

Have a beautiful wonderful happy day

much love
Stephanie

Hey all

I thank you all for continuing to be here and support this quest I share, for learning to live a positive life. The Secret, has so much to offer..the very idea that it shares with us about living in gratitude and being thankful for so much.

I ask that you continue to keep up with your journals and gratitude's..for yourself
and all you want in this life.

I will be posting again and will share today's thoughts and excerpts and then I will add in the missed posts and catch up..very soon.

have a beautiful safe n happy weekend

much love
Stephanie

Day 181...sharing Daily Teachings and Stef's thoughts August 18, 2009

Good morning/afternoon dear friends...

I hope you have slept well and are having a good day.

Today's Teaching talks about consistancy and using our ability to

use our memory to help us gain knowledge and thought patterns through,

repetition..and repetition..

Daily Teaching...Day 181

The process for manifesting what you want is the same, no matter what it is. The process is outlined so thoroughly in The Secret film and the book, and so if you are not clear then you should watch the film over and over again, or read the book over and over again, until it seeps into your mind. Then you will take the principles of The Secret into your consciousness and life, and you will know how to do anything.

I strongly suggest that you re-read the book and if you have the film, re-watch the movie...as you it will start to become more and more clear.

And when that happens and life get better...just from you thought changing..

then this all will have purpose...The hardest part to learn is patience with it all...

as some parts are not instant..period.

I wish for you all a beautiful happy safe day..

much love

Stephanie

Day 180...sharing Daily Teachings and Stef's thoughts July 17, 2009

Hey dear ones

I hope you are refreshed and feeling really good.

Keep up with your journals, of your wants and your gratitude's.

Daily Teaching...Day 180

Criticism can be very subtle in the way it creeps into our thoughts. Here are some

examples of criticism to help you become aware of its subtlety, so you can eliminate

it from your thoughts.

The weather is awful today.

The traffice is terrible.

The service is really bad.

Oh no, look at the line.

He/she is always late.

How long do we have to wait for our order?

That motorist is a lunatic.

It's so hot in here.

I've been on hold for so long!

These are subtle things, but the law of attraction always is listening to them all.

You have the ability to appreciate something in every single circumstance. There

is always something to be grateful for.

This is where we come in..and start to be quite aware of our thoughts...and if we are giving the positive, an opportunity to be seen...this is not about what if's or I can't or whatever other negative thought you can let quietly sneak it, this is about awareness...and choosing to be positive, even in the midst of an appearingly negative situation,

that is truly not. Choose not...to think such things as listed above...they are so easy to slip into...within our thought patterns..that we must realize the importance of this Teaching...as well as it's daily value to us.

Have a wonderful beauitful fun safe day

much love

Stephanie

Good morning/afternoon everyone..

hey all

I am still adjusting all the posts...and adding them all

up to date..

I hope to have it all completed this week

wishing you all a safe and wonderful week ahead

much love

Stephanie

Day 179...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 16, 2009

Hey all..
I hope you all have slept well..and are feeling good


Keep up with your journals and your gratitude's
they are you main guiding light...
in keeping your thoughts in check each day.


©Daily Teaching...Day 179

The law of attraction cannot change anything in your life that you hate, because hate
prevents the change from coming. Since the law is giving us exactly what we are putting
out, when you hate something the law must continue to give you more of what you hate.
You will not be able to more away from it.
Love is the only way.

If you focus completely on the things you love, then you are on your way to a beautiful life.



One week after a major life event happened in my life, in which I chose NOT to feel hate...by choice...I can completely understand the words in this Teaching....they are a good thing for me to read and to breathe into my spirit. For I understand the feeling of hate...and it simply is not anywhere within a good thing for us to feel...I am sure you all have felt this feeling also..but if you can go beyond
it and then bring yourself back to love.....whew..how do we love our enemies...today...then again tomorrow then the next day and next week..and so on...we simply do...by choice, as we thank the teachers and thank the lessons we must learn in this lifetime often through the actions of others....and as I have said before..we don't have to continue to put ourselves in front of something that brings us feelings of hate or fear or hurt...from other's actions...
but we do have a choice in life..the free will thing that we all know of..is a powerful tool also...and in thinking positive thoughts and feeling them...it can all move us to keep believing our wants can come to us...and help us day by day ...to get the things we want mirrored back to us...always.

Life is truly a wonderful Journey...even through it all.

Have a super wonderful happy safe fun day

much love
Stephanie

Day 178...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 15, 2009

Hey Dear Ones..

The summer days are so beautiful..
and a bit cooler today

Keep up with you Journals daily..so important


©Daily Teaching...Day 178

What is the most powerful thing you can add to the process of creating what you want?
Ask for others as you ask for yourself. an easy way to do this is to ask for ALL,
which of course includes you. Ask for a good life for all, peace for all,
abundance for all, health for all, love for all, and happiness for all.

When you ask for others, it comes back to you, so the law has it ALL covered.


I cannot begin to tell you how important this is..as the connection to all here,
is so powerful...this only makes sense when you think about it.


Have a beautiful wonderful safe happy day

much love
Stephanie

Day 177...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 14, 2009

Good morning/afternoon Dear Ones..


Wow another beautiful day and cooler just perfect weather..wow.


Today's Teaching talks about and reminds us the Teaching from Day 2
it is a wonderful reminder to do this, as you place your thoughts in one of gratitude
no matter what is going on in your life...


©Daily Teaching...Day 177

To understand the power of the magic of gratitude, yo have to experience
it for yourself. So why not begin by deciding to find 100 things
a day to be grateful for?

If you practice gratitude every day it won't take long before
gratitude is your natural stat of being, and when that happens
you will have unlocked one of the greatest secrets to life.


Gratitude, is the biggest tool we can use to be happy with..
it can change our thoughts as we know, in an instant.
and if you have been writing 100 things a day..or close..then you
are truly understanding this secret of life.
Even in times of great upheaval, and not understanding what life
is dealing...stop in your day and write down you gratitude's and
understand how their acknowledgement...is so vital to you happiness
and peace..in life...no matter what is going on.
If you can't find 100 things a day to be grateful for...
start by looking around your kitchen..your bedroom..go sit in your car
look in and outside of it..your closet..under your bathroom sink
your make-up box...your tool box..you'll find 100 things very easily.
and if you repeat some of them the next day...that's ok too.


have a really great safe happy grateful day

much love
Stephanie

Day 176...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 13, 2009

Hey and a wonderful good morning/afternoon to you all..

a bit cooler here just beautiful..

Think of what you want..not the absence of it.


©Daily Teaching ...Day 176

Know yourself! Watch how you manifest the small things in life
and think about how you felt inside with those things. Think about
how easily they came. You will find that you thought of a small
thing once and never thought about it again, and then it manifested.

What really happened was that you didn't think any thoughts or speak
any words which contradicted what you wanted, so the law of
attractions was able to do its work.



This talks about how important it is to think of only what you want...
and we all know this is not always possible every minute of the day..
but it is very possible to change your thought, therefore
sending to the Universe, what you really do want...
day after day...


have a beautiful wonderful safe day...

much love
Stephanie

Day 175...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 12, 2009

Hey all...
what a beautiful day...a day to call mine


We must understand the power of our thoughts...
it will be then...we can use them fully.


©Daily Teaching...Day 175

We speak learnedly of the Law of Gravitation but ignore that equally wonderful manifestation, the law of attraction in the thought world. We are familiar with that wonderful manifestation of Law which draws and holds together the atoms of which matter is composed -- we recognize the power of the law that attracts bodies to the earth, that holds the circling worlds in their places, but we close our eyes to the mighty law that draws to us the things we desire or fear, that makes or mars our lives.

"When we come to see that thought is a force -- a manifestation of energy -- having a magnet-like power of attraction, we will begin to understand the why and wherefore of many things that have heretofore seemed dark to us"

WILLIAM WALKER ATKINSON (1862-1932)
Thought Vibration


I have learned much in this lifetime about the power of thought and I have had many lessons in using what I have learned...I am not there yet...but with each event, that creates a chance, an opportunity for me to practice what I have learned...I find gratefulness..in many things I would not have years ago. As we truly understand what we are grateful for..we can feel the good in life...even through turmoil and not understanding it all...we must focus and direct our thoughts to what we want and to what we are grateful for... and through this we will start to understand and appreciate and learn to use even more so...
the power of our thoughts.


Have a wonderful super happy safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 174...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 11, 2009

a good morning/afternoon dear ones..


Sharing positive energy...prayer...Zen so many types of healing
is one of life's blessings..
In keeping our gratitude's in check..by writing them down as we recognize them..
gives a great powerful tool..to bring a peace to us..as well as all we want.


©Daily Teaching...Day 174

Each one of us is the creator of our own lives, and we cannot create in someone else's life unless the other person is consciously asking for that same thing. For example, when someone wants to be well, then others around that person can use their powerful focus of pure wellnessfor them. The positive energy will be for them. The positive energy will be received by the person because they are asking for it themselves, and it will help them enormously.


As we pray and send to and for others...it is even more powerful in their asking for prayer..for
positive energies...for Zen..for however you may send a change for them...
The Universe responds to you thoughts, even in asking for help...but you must keep your focus
on just that..on what you want..not your fears..not your hurts or angers...but your wants.
then and only then can it all come back to you....in the way you have asked, sought, envisioned.


Have a beautiful wonderful happy and safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 173...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 10, 2009

Good morning all
blessings this beautiful day


Always understand how wonderful you are and worth everything you are
in this Universe. You deserve all you want.
Keep writing what you do want in your journals, daily..keep your wants
in the forefront of your day...and write everything you are grateful for.


©Daily Teaching...Day 173

Focus on the wonderful things about you, and when your mind starts to criticize any part of you, stamp out those thoughts. Stop them immediately and switch your mind to the good things about you. If you focus on the good things about you, you will attract an abundance of the good things.

Be kind to yourself, because you deserve it.


Never underestimate how much you truly deserve in this life..how much you can bring
into your life that you truly want..simply by your thoughts..on a daily basis....a minute by minute basis
and that is ok...for it keeps us in the present..and in that place, we can truly imagine all we want.
and it is nothing less than we deserve...we must believe this...always.


Have a beautiful happy safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 172...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 9, 2009

Hey all and wonderful good morning...

It's a beautiful mid summer day

This all works on our physical bodies as well as our mental and emotional...
as we learn to focus on our wants..in everything...envisioning what we want...
rather than the absence of it.


©Daily Teaching...Day 172

Many people who diet lose the weight and then put it back on, because their focus was on losing the weight. Instead, make your perfect weight your focus.

Whatever is your strongest focus is what you will attract. That is how the law works.



You must learn to always understand your focus...whether it be on losing weight
or meeting the right person or getting the perfect job or or or whatever it is...
keep your focus and thoughts on what you want...
It is always in this..you will receive all you want in this abundant Universe


Have a beautiful wonderful happy safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 171...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 8, 2009

Good morning/afternoon dear ones..

what a wonderful morning

Great acts of kindness, can change the world!


©Daily Teaching...Day 171

Every single day, no matter who you meet in the day -- friends, family,
work colleagues, strangers -- give joy to them. Give a smile or a
compliment or kind words or kind actions, but give joy! Do your best
to make sure that every single person you meet has a better day
because they saw you. This might sound like it is not connected with
you and your life, but believe me, it is inseparably connected
through cosmic law.

As you give joy to every person you meet, you bring joy to YOU.
The more you can give joy to others, the more you will
bring the joy back to you.


This is so true, so useful, so needed, so important,
so possible, so perfect.

I hope you will do this and watch the wonderful changes in your life.

Have a beautiful happy safe loving kind day

much love
Stephanie

Day 170...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 7, 2009

Hey all

I hope you all slept so very well..I sure did.

Life is a process...it flows no matter what..
what does matter to us... is how we react...then feel.
Keep your journaling and gratitude's going..everyday..


©Daily Teaching...Day 170

The process of creation is the same for all things, whether you want to
bring something to you or remove something negative from your life.

If you have a habit you wish to break, or anything negative you wish
to remove from your life, you must focus on what you want.
That means you visualize and imagine yourself in that negative-free
state right now. Imagine yourself in as many scenes as you possibly can
where the negative situation is completely absent. Imagine yourself
happy and free. Eliminate any pictures from your mind of you with the
negative situation. Just imagine yourself in the state you want to be in,
and feel that you are that, right now.


This my friends, is simply what we have been talking about for over 165+ days.
It is that simple, don't even dare to make it harder for yourself.
PICTURE IN YOUR MIND WHAT YOU WANT,
not the absence of what you want....not the things and life situations you don't want.
This takes practice...but you can do this. I have truly started doing this so much
more this past year...especially as fear starts to rise up in me..from any given
situation, event, or being around certain persons....perhaps not a fear but
a negative feeling, that someone else seems to trigger in you...
I use the words recognition and realization soo much...they are your power..
they are your allowing energy to see what you are doing thinking saying expressing
you must picture a mirror in front of yourself in all you do..and a small personal
headphone like singers use now..in your ear..so you can hear all you say.
and as much as you can recognize and realize what you are thinking..there is no
mirror or headphone for that....but there is your awareness..the very one
you have been toning tweaking and working on for months..
Pay attention to you and all you do think and say... in life's situations...
and then change your thoughts immediately if you need to..you know how.
Make yourself in control of you...not others ..not life's stuff
but you...so many don't do this, they are controlled by their feelings
instead of controlling their feelings.
This is what we are learning..and in doing this..we can mirror back to us
all we want......all we want!


Have a beautiful wonderful safe happy day ..

much love
Stephanie

Day 169....sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 6, 2009

Good morning/afternoon dear ones..

what a glorious day...

All we truly have is NOW...
keep that in your mind somewhere, so you can grasp it when you need to.


©Daily Teaching...Day 169

There is no past or future for the law of attraction, only the present, so stop referring to your life in the past as very difficult, or full of hardship and pain, or in any other negative way.

Remember that the law operates only in the present, so when you speak of your past life negatively the law is receiving your words and sending those things back to you NOW.


Oh my how powerful are these few words above...for how often do we take our minds
to a particular life event, that caused us such great pain...or such mental or emotional
anguish...now I do feel sometimes we must go there, to help us release it..but there comes
a time when we must let go and let it simply be what it was....in the past.
And no..this is not always easy..but it is very possible...but not thinking it so much, and you can
do that by replacing those thoughts with grateful one...and that you all know how to do.
When the negative thoughts come in..and they will...allow yourself to NOT give them too much of
your energy.. of your lifeforce....and the replacing of them..will help with this very much.

How many times have we all said..."I can forgive, but I can't forget"..
we all have said this...the forgetting will get easier....as you replace those thoughts with
grateful ones....Our grateful thoughts, have the most incredible power to change not only our thoughts
but our feelings...and they simply allow us..to have more peace...if we use this powerful tool..
of again..I will say it again...
Replace the negative thoughts from your past, with current grateful feelings you have
of true gratitude..in everything and everyone around you...right now.
it is the gift to yourself..as much as forgiving is, for I almost want to say..from personal
experience...if you haven't forgotten it...if it still causes you much pain...then have you truly
forgiven it.....how do you do this...
Say I forgive you....I forgive you...I forgive you...
then replace your immediate thoughts with grateful ones.
do this over and over if you need to...
keep replacing the negative hurtful memories and/or thoughts..with positive grateful ones..

So much power here..within your/our grasps..it will work.


Have a beautiful wonderful safe peaceful day....

much love
Stephanie

Day 168...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 5, 2009

Good morning/afternoon dear ones

what a beautiful day...


Keep writing daily, in your journals...your wants and your gratitude's...
take your time for this...
The incredible power of positive and negative forces...WOW!


©Daily Teaching...Day 168

"The positive mind is always in harmony with itself, while the negative mind is always out of harmony, and thereby loses the greater part of it's power....In the positive mind, all the actions of the mental system are working in harmony and are being fully directed toward the object in view, while in the negative mind, those same forces are scattered, restless, nervous, disturbed, moving here and there, sometimes under direction, but most of the time not. That the one should invariably succeed is therefore just as evident as that the other should Invariably fail.

CHRISTIAN D. LARSON (1874-1954)
Your Forces and How to Use Them



Oh my how wonderfully true are these words....I had to reread this a couple of times..
as the message in the words is quite profound really....and yet so simple.
We truly must understand the power in using our positive mind...it has the most power in
the world....if used correctly....and the wonderful part is..we can do this.
all of us, anywhere...can do this.


Have a super positive fun happy safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 167...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 4, 2009

Hey all and good morning/afternoon.

I hope you're all feeling great today


Peace on Earth


©Daily Teaching...Day 167

There is not a single instance in history where hate has brought joy to human beings. Hate destroys those who hold it in their minds and bodies. If humanity released all hate, fear, and resentment, then no dictator could ever rise, and we would have peace on earth.

Peace on earth can occur only through peace within each of us.



Have a beautiful wonderful peaceful day

much love
Stephanie

Day 166...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 3, 2009

Hey and good morning/afternoon dear ones..

what another gorgeous summer day it is..

The power of Energy..

©Daily Teachings...Day 166

We now know conclusively through science that energy can never
be created or destroyed -- it can only change form. We are made of
energy, therefore we also cannot be created or destroyed --
we just change form.

Many human beings have such a fear of death, but we are eternal life
that simply changes its outside form.


So very true.... but my thoughts on this..is yes we only change form
but each thing we do...with ourselves or others is a one time shot.
nothing ever will be exactly done or said or felt as it was that one time...
not to say it can't be better.... but for me, knowing this, helps me appreciate and be
grateful for so much...because whether you're talking energy or whatever
that experience will soon be a memory..including each lifetime...and the form
we take...the path we choose or allow..all of it is energy, but only a one time shot.
to me..is why life is so precious..the good parts...the wonderful parts..of living.


Have a beautiful loving safe energetic day

much love
Stephanie

Day 165...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 2, 2009

Hey dear ones..

I hope you're feeling refreshed..today..

Keep up with your journaling and your gratitude's..
don't lose this..not even for one day.


©Daily Teaching...Day 165

Use the power of your will and do the things that will change your life.
Practice the principles of The Secret every day. Use the power of your will
and determine to LIVE these principles. Use all the laws of nature for
your benefit. Use discipline to practice every day without exception.

You are the only one who can strengthen your will. The changes you see
will be in exact proportion to how much you commit to doing them.


Do you understand all this...some things are so simple we can't see them..
literally can't see the forest for the trees....
There are laws of nature that can help use each day...think about them..write
them down; and use them.
There is the INCREDIBLE power of your own WILL...that you haven't even tapped
into yet...and
There are the principles of The Secret..you have been learning...know them use them
Reread the book!!!
I want you all to write down the laws of nature you can think of...ask other People
what laws of nature they can think of to help us/you. but write the down..so they
are recognizable to you...for then you can truly use them.
Write down..how you understand the power of your will...that is simple words...with such
power, more than realize...yet. So write down what you think you have within
the power of your own will...from getting up in the morning to driving to work
play at the beach..going to the library..the grocery store... interacting with your family
and friends..and icky people too..to having all the fun you can think of..within your
family and friends...to everything you do in a day in a week in a month...in the past year.
how much did you recognize and use your will...
This is so important for you to recognize...not to take away your thoughts from life..
but to recognize your thoughts from life..and to be in control of your thoughts and for
sure what you do and say....which will totally affect your feelings...in everything.

When it said up there..
"the changes you see will be in exact proportion to how much you commit to doing them"
this means...what you put out...how much you put out..is what you'll get back...period
good or bad...negative or positive...I first understood this concept simply when I was a
young woman in my early 20s, and someone said..if you hit a wall, the force you hit is with
is what is going to hit you back...(hurt) that simply concept helped me realize
what you put out in anything..in life..is what you get back...
and only you know what you put out..in your work, your family n friends, your home,
your everything...there is an equal return...that, is one law of nature!

The principle of The Secret...which are the laws of the Universe...are simply there.
There is no looking or seeking..only recognition and realization of all you have
and all you can do...it doesn't come in an instant....for everything..but it will come to you.
and your life will be better and better each day..as you do this...
through recognizing and realizing your gratitude's...(the things that matter..therefore
the things you want in your life) and your realization of how they fit into your life...
whether they are things..places...or people ...goals...wants...or needs.
In keeping your journals..this gives you something to bounce off of...
There is so much in life..good. And we have every right to have it.
but we must realize what it is...then bring it to us.


Have a beautiful wonderful safe happy day..

much love
Stephanie

Day 164...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts July 1, 2009

Hey dear ones..

Another gorgeous summer day here..
I hope you all slept as well as I did..

Absence of kindness...Absence of love...Absence of understanding
Absence of joy...Absence of compassion...Absence of paitence
I love today Teachings...so much


©Daily Teaching...Day 164

Think kind thoughts. Speak words of kindness. Act with kindness.
Make kindness your state of being in thoughts, words, and actions.
There are many degrees of kindness and it is interesting to realize that
what people call 'evil' is simply the absence of kindness.

There is only One Power -- and it is all positive and all good.


It's really not so hard to be kind, but for some it may be foreign...to be
kind in your thoughts, words, and actions...all day.
How do we do this..when dealing with so much..with so many..
'''Just do it'''
The rewards will be incredible...
I told both of my supervisors today...how much I appreciate what they do...
and I thanked them...from my heart...I felt it as I said it...even though sometimes
they drive me crazy...I felt this from my heart...and they both
were taken a back..to my kind heartfelt words...and were grateful..
with saying..how nice...thank you!

I had changed my thoughts...I had given up on being aggravated...and in deeply
feeling what I wanted to see good in them...it changed the day for us all..in
connection with each other....try it..from your heart...even with your aggravators and
your so called enemies...see the good...then act in kindness.
Great acts of Kindness..are usually so unexpected in today's world...
Great acts of Appreciation are usually so unexpected n today's world.
Shift your thoughts if needed....and try this...

have a beautiful wonderful safe happy...kind day

much love
Stephanie

Day 163...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 30, 2009

Hey all

yet another beautiful day with lower humidity...oh yea

Balance...Harmony...it's possible


©Daily Teaching...Day 163

To live equally balanced between your heart and your mind is to live a life of blis.
When your heart and mind are balanced, your body is in complete harmony.
And so is your life.


We all know this, it is the journey getting to this...we do each day
bit by bit...day by day.
You all are doing so well, I hope you are as proud of yourselves, as I am of you all.


Have a beautiful wonderful safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 162...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 29, 2009

Good Monday Morning/Afternoon...Day 162

I hope you all have slept well and are feeling refreshed after a wonderful weekend.


©Daily Teaching...Day 162

Continually monitor how you are feeling. You want to be feeling life flowing
through you like a river, rather that tensely holding on to life. You can tell
by the way you are relaxed and flowing, or if you are holding tension inside you.

One way of releasing any tension is to decide that you are going to give the
very best of yourself to everyone. As you give the best of you, you are
opening up the flow of the Universe to move through you.
And it feels good!



OH this is so true..and I can truly recognize it as I did last Thursday at work...I was so very
tense and impatient for a couple of hours, and I felt truly..that I was not being my best.
not in my work, but in how I felt towards people, maybe even in how I was treating them..
not badly, but not me...not my best...and truthfully my day was just (sucking bad) lol..
felt awful...negative, I didn't want to be there etc. etc...but when I recognized this..even
after recognizing it, I wanted to just not be there...was very tense and feeling negative..
but then I made decision this was not me..and not how I wanted to feel not only today,
but anyday..and when I saw this..and felt it more...I took a breathe and I allow the good
feelings to come in, the positive notions of everything...(and I have a lot going on in my life
right now, we all do, but I can only speak for me) and I began to remember my faith..that
all thing work together for good...that life is a wonderful journey, and it will be ok.
In an instant..within the next few minute, it all changed..it all go better, I was smiling more
and I was talking more positive more full of life..as I usually do..but I do remember vividly,
the change and it impacted my day..and now my life, as I tell you about it.
I started giving my best to everyone...and I felt it...it was my best for that day.
and it was a wonderful welcomed change in those moments for me that day.


Have a beautiful wonderful safe happy day

much love
Stephanie



I want you all to check where you are at.. in all of this. Are you doing the Daily Teachings..
or are you reading them and not doing them or what is needed daily; wants-gratitude's-journal.
Remember when you first read about me starting this, and what went through you to want
some change in your life. I have to say..you must not lose track of that, you must allow the
growth/healing/recognition/change to happen. but it won't be happening if you don't make
a change, and in doing all of this..it is a discipline if you will..to keep motivated everyday.
NOW...having said this...I am not saying you are not doing this..it is your journey.
only you know what you are doing in it all...but if it's being done like starting a new diet
and then you stop...and start and stop..and I am speaking from experience...
the changes will not occur...it is important to recognize this..where you are at.
So...if you feel you need to go back some....do it...if you feel you need to start over
do it...take the time this week and go back through the Daily Teachings...do what it
says each day..where it just be reading..or thinking..or actually writing something.
There are no wrong answers, there are no timelines...but I will move you if needed,
to remember why you started this..we are about half way through now...
This all for me..has made sense in my life to what I believe in...and it has helped me bring to the surface
who I am....and how it has melded with me...it will be different for each of us..but
I for this week..read and do the Daily Teachings...and read back through the Daily Teachings..
even it if takes you doing this.;through next week..get yourself back on track, if you are not.
and let this work for you, as it makes sense for you...
I have everyday if you don't..at my blogspot

http://sharingthesecretwithyou.blogspot.com/

you will have to go back through (older posts) until you get to the beginning..
I am going to start printing them all too..I have not even done that lol..but I have them all
save to 3 spots on my computers/external..

Again..only you know what and where you are with all of this...but I ask you
if you are not up on it everyday as you were when you first started...consider getting back
to that point..and give yourself this year...this whole year for this.
And yes I have fallen off the wagon if you will, a couple of times but only of coupe of days..not longer.
but I do always recognize what I am grateful for and who I am grateful for..that is within me
everyday..

Day 161...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 28, 2009

Good Morning/Afternoon Dear Ones..

What a beautiful day...

Keep your wants and your journals going, and most of all your gratitude's.


©Daily Teaching...Day 161

"What one knows, one sees."

JOHANN WOLFGANG VON GOETHE
(1749-1832)


Think about what this means to you and how it interacts
with all we are learning here...
please share with the group..if you wish.


Have a beautiful wonderful safe happy day

much love
Stephanie

Day 160...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 27, 2009

Hey and a good morning/afternoon to you all

today is simple and it is for everyday you wake up!


©Daily Teaching...Day 160


Today is the best day of your life!



And it is...strive for it every..through it all!

have a beautiful wonderful safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 159...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 26, 2009

Hey Dear ones..

what a gorgeous hot summer day it is ..

Gotta love the Universe and all it's wonder


©Daily Teaching...Day 159

The Supreme Power of the Universe is the supplier of all things,
and the law of attraction is the distribution manager of these things.
You are a central point of creation on Earth, and it is through you and
your use of the law that the Universe can bring creation into our
physical world.

What a beautiful system!


What a beautiful system..indeed.

Have a beautiful happy day and be safe

much love
Stephanie

Day 158...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 25, 2009

Good morning/afternoon dear ones...

a beautiful summer morning, doesn't seem quite as humid today...nice.

Keep up with your journals and gratitude's, at least a little everyday.
even if you add one or two things, add them...it will help your day.


©Daily Teachings...Day 158

To practice the art of visualization, begin by thinking back on your day.
Choose a wonderful scene or moment from you day, an replay that scene
in your mind. Picture the place, the people, the background sounds, the
colors, the words that were spoken, and every detail of that scene as you
replay it in your mind.

This is a very powerful way of improving your visualization skills, and at the
same time you are attracting more wonderful scenes into your life.


This is something you can do everyday, at any moment. It can help you get through
a very recent bad experience and change your thoughts immediately....even if you
have to go into a bathroom or a closet to get away from where you are..for a bit.
And most importantly, if you practice this daily it will become a part of you and a part
of your recovery system for negative situations, as well as just a thing you can do
to relax you and allow the good stuff of a day to be worth something....for remembering
the good stuff, gives it power and good stuff for you. We seem to choose too often,
to remember the bad stuff, even enough to talk about it over and over...why!
There is venting, there is explaining something to a friend who cares
and then there is completely reliving something over and over..again..why
choose to do that, at some point stop...and allow the good things to fill your mind.
and for some this won't be easy, as there are some, who get incredible energy and a
sense of power within them, reliving negative experiences...they thoroughly enjoy
hearing the negative things on the news and talking about it over and over...d
o we have to know everything negative about a day?
Do we have to relive a bad accident or keep hearing the knowledge
of a horrific thing in the world....even in our own town?
When we do see or hear such things...send a prayer or a positive healing thought
to the people and to the situation. A prayer is so full of great positive energy.
and it can help you, to start healing from hearing or seeing that..also.

I ask you this, for the next week, pay attention to what you remember when you
are laying down to go to sleep, when you have paused for a break, when you are doing
the dishes, vacuuming or other chores......are you thinking of the icky stuff in your world,
and our world, or are you giving your precious thought energy to the wonderful
moments of a day, of a special part of any given day...pay attention to your thoughts,
so you can at least recognize them enough to change them, if you need to.

Have a beautiful safe day..full of some fun times

much love
Stephanie

Day 157...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 24, 2009

Good morning/afternoon dear ones..

What a beautiful day it is hereI slept very well,

and I hope you all did too

*How blessed are you?do you really know?

Can you count on all your fingers and more, your blessings?

©Daily Teaching...Day 157

Become increasingly aware of all the magnificent things in your life.Feel the gratitude toward all the people who have given so muchthrough their work and inventions so that you can have a much easierlife. Did you take a shower this morning? Did you use electricity? How did you get to work? By car, train, bus or did you walk in your shoes?Did you pick up coffee or listen to the radio or make a call on your cellphone or take an elevator? You us so many inventions every day of yourlife. Are you taking them for granted or are you being grateful for them?

We are so blessed -- really we are.

Take the time today to add to this list of things we need to be grateful for.I can think of one huge one, we all use everyday...a computer!!Even people who don't use the computer, use the computer...when they drive,(traffic light, their car's computer)when they go out to eat,when they check out at at Walmart lol! Imagine not having these computersto help our lives...when you go to the hospital...Take the time this week and list all things we can be grateful for that are outsideof our boxes...that effect everyone. Then share these with your family..(kids)your friends..and remind them.Another thing to replace a negative thought.Have a beautiful wonderful safe happy daymuch loveStephanie

Day 156...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 23, 2009

Hey Dear Ones..

oh what a beautiful morning it is here.
I hope you all are having one also..

I want you to read to today's Teaching...21 times
so pick a time today or tonight and read it 21 times..
Reading or hearing something 21 times, has been scientifically proven to be in
your head, period...and I want you to do this..read this 21 times a day for a week..
then do it once a week at least, for the rest of your life.
It will change your life!


©Daily Teachings...Day 156

Here is a description of who you really are:

I AM whole

I AM perfect

I AM strong

I AM powerful

I AM loving

I AM harmonious

I AM happy

Got any work to do?


Now if you feel this way about yourself, all the time...everyday..
then you won't need to do this exercise...otherwise...
the 21 times a day ..as you breathe in each word...will truly change your life.
you can type it out or hand write it and paste it all over your home..
your dashboard, your mirrors..your fridge..etc
and feel free to add any other positive wonderful things your already are,
yet need to awaken to more.
such as
I AM beautiful!

Have a beautiful happy wonderful safe day...

much love
Stephanie

Day 155...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 22, 2009

Hey all

another gorgeous day here...
I hope you all feel really good.

Today's Teaching is so important, as it effects us all
in our life and in what we hear from others.



©Daily Teaching...Day 155

You can limit yourself by the story you have created about you.
Here are some simple examples of how the story we have
created about ourselves can limit us:

I am no good at math. I have never been able to dance. I am not a good
writer. I am very stubborn. I don't sleep well. I am very moody.
I struggle with my weight. My English is not good. I am always late.
I am not a very good driver. I can't see without my glasses. It is hard
for me to make friends. Money seems to slip through my fingers.

The moment you become aware of what you are saying, you can
delete these things and rewrite your story.


Can we all relate to this..can we relate to other's around us with this..
If your answer is YES..them you have just moved into recognition...
which is the first step to change, and being able to change.
Pay attention to what you say..to what you think..

I have a homework I want you all to do...pick a day this week..
and you will have to have a notebook with you at all times, a small one will do
and it may have to be on a day you are not working..
but for the whole day I want you write down everything you say,
and everything you think...now part of your thinking will be, oh I have to write this down
so maybe just abbreviate that thought..but I want you to become deeply aware
of what you think and what you say..for just one day. Try to do, just after you say it
or think..yes this will be something that will take your day..but it will be fun too.
You can write next to your sentence..T for thought S for spoken
when you have done this..let me know. and a couple of days
going over what you wrote..now you can't leave anything out.
whether it be fear or anger or fun or joy or anything...
this will be your most important lesson to date..
with all you have learned...are you still thinking and saying negative things
and be sure to not leave anything out...you must as I said do it as you say it or think..
or you may forget it.
When you have done this, I want you to let the group know, and if you feel to
let us all know how you came out...what you learned about you...
and there are no rules and not grades..this is for you ...about you.

Have a beautiful wonderful safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 154...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 21, 2009

Happy Father's Day
to you all

what a beautiful summer day her in mid North Carolina..
I hope you all feeling your blessings..


©Daily Teaching....Day 154

"A man is but the product of his thoughts.
What he thinks, he becomes."

MOHANDAS KARAMCHAND GANDHI
(1869-1948)


What incredibly simple words of wisdom these are. Everything we do in our lives,
is based upon our thoughts. From the time we get up, to the time we sleep.
What we think about, how we do things, how we converse, how play, how we
work, how we feel, how we love...is all about our thoughts.

You must consider always, what your going to think..choose it to be
good for you, good for your life, and good for your destiny.

We have talked and talked and discussed all of this..and it all comes
down to your thoughts...I hope you all are recognizing this...each day
as it creates your life.


Have a beautiful wonderful..loving safe Father's Day

much love
Stephanie

Day 153...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 20, 2009

Hey dear ones..
and a wonderful day to you all

Today's Teaching is so important for the delivery of our wants.
You must learn ways to relax...find your way to this.


©Daily Teaching...Day 153

Resistance blocks what you want from coming to you. You create
resistance in yourself by feeling anxious or worried about what you
want. That tension causes the resistance and blocks delivery.

If you feel tense when you think of what you want, it is time to
relax, relax, relax. Let your body relax your mind by allowing your
body to be floppy and as fluid as water. Every time you feel yourself
starting to tense up, relax your body until you feel floppy again.


Remember to use the breathing technique I talked about also,
that can relax you instantly also.
All of this works together for sure...remember as much as you can.
not worry about what you don't have, but to picture yourself with all your want..
put the energy there.

Keep up with your journals and you daily gratitude's..
now if any of you feel gratitude in everything..you can stop ...
but if you don't ..keep writing them..

Have a beautiful wonderful safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 152...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 19, 2009

Good Morning/Afternoon ...Dear Ones..

Oh what a beautiful summer day her in mid North Carolina..
I see Carolina blue skies...yes its summer..and hot lol and I love it.

Today's Teaching is a great thought, and I will remember to harness
this energy, one task at a time...as I, and most of you, have so many tasks!!


©Daily Teaching...Day 152

Sometimes it is better to focus on one thing at a time, so that you
harness all your energy for the one thing. That said, you can list
multiple things that you want and spend one day at a time focusing
on each one, feeling as though you have received it. You will most
likely find that the things you have the least concern about will come first,
because your lack of concern allows the Universe to easily deliver.


I shall take this message and use to my fullest capability, as I have about
a bazillion things to do on any given day lol...seriously it is a great way to
do many tasks. I have always told my children, when they must clean their
rooms, and they are sinking in the feeling of it...to just focus on one area..
not the whole room...it has always seemed to work for them, and for me lol
in helping them. We can do this in life too and in our life goals, such as
building a new deck or a new garden or a laying new carpet and new tile etc...
if we just focus on one area..after we have listed many.
Just a nice thought for it all.


Have a beautiful wonderful safe happy day

much love
Stephanie

Day 151...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 18, 2009

Hey all
I hope you're all doing wonderful today

The wonderful choice of free will...and being able to make changes,
in our thoughts and our world.


©Daily Teaching...Day 151

You are an electromagnetic being emitting a frequency. Only those things
that are on the same frequency as the one you emitting can come into
your experience. Every single person, even, and circumstance in your day
is telling your what frequency you are on.

If your day is not going well, stop and deliberately change your
frequency. If you day is going swimmingly, keep doing what you are doing.


It really is this easy!!
Have you taken notice to see if since you have started thinking
more positive, from the ideas of these Teachings...all by your choice
mind you....have you noticed, that some things or things other people do..
that used to bother you, irritate you, upset you, hurt you,
or just pissed your off..don't do that any more.

I can honestly, I have notice it..and I have also noticed, I have been able
to make changes in my life, by taking action. And even though people,
in my taking action..thought I was upset with or it was about them..
(it was about me)..it created change for all concerned.
And we' re all still breathing.Sometimes we do things, and people go..OMG what are you doing..why
when how who...and they try to take ownership of your change..most
often because they feel, it directly impacts them..and it is hard for them
to see the positive of it...This has happened to all of us...and it will probably
again, so if and when it does, consider and remember it is not about them,
changes we make, are about us....and even though you or some others may
feel fear, spread in many ways to them...it will be ok..if it is done
with Love...Kindness...Patience...and Understanding.
When you are feeling these feelings in some of your life changes,
it will always be a good thing, even if that possibility shows up later.
At some point, you will see this, and so will they.
Also remember this, when others make changes in their, and you think
it affects you...thank them..thank the teachers..the lessons...the experience..
even if you do this in private...to God and the Universe...it is still done
and will show, in your actions and your life.

Have a beautiful wonderful safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 150...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 17, 2009

Good Morning/Afternoon Dear Ones..

I hope you're feeling as refreshed as I am this wonderful cloudy morning...
tis the season for summer rains lol

The ability to understand and recognize what you are grateful for in your life,
allows you a sense of peace, not everyone has, usually by choice.
But to make a choice to allow yourself to awaken to the feelings of feeling
Gratitude, in everything and everyone you meet. is a rare gift..one your are working on everyday.


©Daily Teaching...Day 150

When you reach the highest levels of gratitude, every thought you think,
every word you speak, and every action you take
comes out of pure goodness.


Simple basic words, that have the possibility of creating a world of peace,
love, prosperity and happiness.
If the whole world, could see gratitude in everything, it would affect us all, the ripple would
be amazing..can you just imagine...(picture it often).

And it doesn't matter your world, for even in the most remote jungles of the world,
the hunter is so grateful or his catch, even in the coldest spots on the earth,
the people are grateful for their bit of warmth..their food and their shelter.
Gratitude does not have to come from material goods, from how many friends
you have or the best job or home, it comes from basic pure feeling, no matter what it's for.
And in recognizing this day by day, we are learning it...day by day.

Have a beautiful happy safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 149...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 16, 2009

Hey dear ones..

I hope you're all feeling good and have had a good night into this morning

I absolutely love this Teaching, as it talks about the importance of giving..
on every level..and how it only comes back to you..in ways you can't imagine.


©Daily Teaching ..Day 149

Giving opens up the door to receiving.
You have so many opportunities to give every day.

Give kind words. Give a smile. Give appreciation and love.
Give compliments. You can give courtesy to other motorists while
you are driving. You can give a smile to the car parking attendant.
You can give a warm greeting to the newspaper stand person or the
person who makes your coffee. You can give by allowing a stranger to
go ahead of you in an elevator, and you can give by asking which floor they
are going to and pressing the button for them. If someone drops something
you can give a helping hand and pick it up for them. You can give warm embraces
to those you love. And you can give appreciation and encouragement to everyone.

There are so many opportunities for you to give and
thereby open the door to receiving.


Oh how true oh how true ..this all is..do we do this, any one of these or all,
on any given day. If only we could realize the power in giving..how it only
creates the open door for receiving...they have always gone hand in hand
and they always will...especially at the times you least expect it
and most need it.

Giving has to come from the heart, it has to be real...we all have given when it comes
right from the heart and we all have given when we may have not wanted to..but
we felt an obligation perhaps..or just gave quickly not really wanting to...from the heart.
There is a difference and when you give from your heart.. it is different kind of feeling
that you only get from doing this...and it is good for you, your body, and your spirit.

Be aware of your giving..what triggers it..what makes you give..what makes you
know the difference..in real giving and not real giving.

This all is a part of your journey...not only in this next year..but this whole life.

Have a beautiful safe happy day

much love
Stephanie

Day 148...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 15, 2009

Hey everyone

Happy Happy Day to you all

What are you grateful for...!!
write it down..today.

Remember dear ones..
You are the stone!


©Daily Teaching...Day 148

Pure gratitude is a state of giving. When you are in a state of heartfelt
gratitude you are radiating a powerful electromagnetic field around you.
The radiations from you are so pure and powerful that they touch all those
your come into contact with. The effect on others who receive what you
are radiating would be impossible to trace -- the ripple effect from
one person to another never ends.


I have been in the state a few times in my life...
it is truly is a nice place to be.
I wish I could be in it always..and am working on it everyday..
as we all are..I would only hope.
and there are some who have never awoken to this yet...


Have a beautiful happy safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 147...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 14, 2009

Hey all
and wonderful day to you all

Keep your Journaling going and your Gratitude's
they are a good meter for helping you to monitor your feelings..


©Daily Teaching...Day 147


"If you are distressed by anything, external, the pain is not due to the
thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to
revoke at any moment"

MARCUS AURELIUS ANTONINUS AUGUSTUS
(121-180)


I am not sure who this person is..nor do I know much about his writings, but this one I love..
recheck the date of his life...wow..
As I have said before my friends..this is not a new concept, it was incited in us by God
and the Universe at the conception of man, I feel...and to be able to use these
tools and ideas in today's age...the same ones from the 1st century..to me is huge.

If nothing else, it can eliminate your feelings, that its all about you...the icky stuff.
What is about you, is your ability to create great wonderful change in your life,
and it starts by recognizing things and your feelings about things..
and it is then, that you can start to eliminate the negativity from your life...
and start bringing all your good to you...day by day..recognition by recognition.


Have a beautiful happy safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 146...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 13, 2009

Hey and good morning/evening dear ones

another nice day in paradise..as our prayers have been heard
and answered...thank you

I ask that you pay attention to today's Teaching, and feel it into your bones..


©Daily Teaching...Day 146

If you want to attract money, you may find that you have more power by
imagining having the things you want the money for. If there is lack of money in
your life, then your feelings and beliefs about money are most likely not very
good, and things money will buy may feel much better. You have to learn to
decipher your feelings and choose the thoughts that feel better to you.

The thoughts that feel better are where your power is.


How many times do you hear people say...I can't afford this or I don't have money
for that...and so on and so on...and ya know what..their right!!!
and then look at the people who you feel have so much, are they rich,
or are they enjoying all they have, and thinking about what they want...
instead of the absence of what they want.
Remember what we mirror to the Universe...
be sure it's what you want mirrored back to you.
and Remember where your power is...at least recognize this, if it's not where
you want it...you can change that.


Have a beautiful wonderful safe happy...shopping day

much love
Stephanie

Day 145..sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 12, 2009

Hey Dear Ones..

I hope today is a wonderful day for you
and you feel refreshed...and peaceful.

Remember to keep up with your journals, of your wants and your gratitude's.


©Daily Teaching...Day 145

When people first start using The Secret, they may get a little scared of
thinking negative thoughts. Because of that fear, when they think a good
thought, immediately the opposite thought may come into their mind.
This is not unusual. However, I want you to know that this phase passes very,
very quickly. And the easiest way for it to pass is to pay no attention
whatsoever to the negative thoughts. Just ignore them an then think a
good thought When a negative thought comes, just shrug it off s if you
don't care about it one bit, and think a good thought to replace it.


This thought process of ignoring negative thoughts, is truly simple, if you work it.
You simply do replace it with a positive thought..about your child or grandchild...
your spouse or love..your animals..a favorite place...something to change that
fear thought..and the more you do this, the easier it will become.
I do love the way Rhonda, talks about things we may be thinking about...she has
already been there..done that, what a great teacher she is of positive thoughts.


Have a beautiful wonderful safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 144...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 11, 2009

Hey all
and a happy thinking day to you


Today's Teaching is so beautiful..so full of love..and so simple.


©Daily Teaching...Day 144

When you exist in the beautiful state of gratitude, you become a person
who only wants to give. You become so grateful that it takes over your life,
and you can't find enough opportunity in a day to give. You give joy,
you give love, you give money, you give appreciation, you give compliments,
and you give kindness. You give the best of yourself in your job, in
your relationships, and to strangers.

You will know when you have really found true gratitude, because you will
become a giver. One who is truly grateful cannot be anything else.


As I said, this is so beautiful..and we must yearn for this. And there is a balance,
for remember what you give..is what you mirror...is what you get back.
and it all creates an atmosphere of gratitude, surrounding you as you see the world
differently...especially your part of the world.

This can only be a good thing!


Have a beautiful wonderful safe happy day..why not.

much love
Stephanie

Day 143...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 10, 2009

Hey all
and an wonderful day to you

The Power of Thoughts..
be aware of this...especially as you feel your gratitude's and your wants.


©Daily Teaching...Day 43

You can most certainly help others through your thoughts, and they
can help you. Every good thought you send to another, is a
living force. However, the person you are sending the
thought to has to be asking for the same thing you are sending.
If the person does not want it, then they are not in harmony with
your thought frequency, and it will not penetrate them.

You cannot create in another's life against their will, but if it is
something they want, your thoughts are a real force that helps them.


Have you ever sent a prayer, in thought only for someone? and you both wanted
the same answer..usually for a healing or a great life change...this is the type of thought
that would be a living force...as many others too..but I do feel we can always
send good thoughts..that is certainly our choice..how it is received is usually their choice.
And remember, sending good thoughts to others is affecting you in good thoughts..
for yourself as well, I hope you see this.it is definitely a win win situation.


Have a wonderful safe beautiful happy day

much love
Stephanie

Day 142...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 9, 2009

Good morning/afternoon Dear Ones...

You all are so special...I am so proud of you all for keeping up with this
and making it a point to help yourself through some things...in your life.
We all are learning as we go through each day, each circumstance...
Life is always a wonderful Journey.


©Daily Teaching....Day 142

Who is the Captain of your ship? You know that is if no-one is steering a ship then that
ship will be battered about in the seas and crash into the rocks. Think of your body as a
ship and your mind as the engine, and you as the captain of your ship!

Take charge of your ship so that you can use the power of your engine to
steer the ship to the destination you want.



"The destination you want"
What is the destination you want...Who is steering your ship!
Is it you and your wants...or something else...absence of them or what...who!!!
This is why you must consider all you want...Keeping your Journals with your wants
can make this happen...and keeping your Gratitude's..will help you recognize, what
is really important in your life..and works with what you really want..
Do you understand this....by claiming what your are grateful for...helps you realize
what you want and need..even if the next time it is different or with other people,
but all of this works together and helps us to know what we want, so we can bring it to us
and steer our ships the way we want...and my friends, this is not instant, it is a life journey,
but at some point and that is now...your have to recognize and realize..what they are.


Have a beautiful happy safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 141...sharing Daily Teachings ©Stef's thoughts June 8, 2009

Hey Dear Ones...

I hope your day is a wonderful one...so nice here
summer is here for sure..

Keep up with your Journals..and your wants and your gratitude's..
speak your truth.....take action when you need to.


©Daily Teaching....Day 141

Be aware of the big difference between inspired action and activity. Activity comes from
the brain-mind and is rooted in disbelief and lack of faith - you are taking action to
"make" your desire happen. Inspired action is allowing the law to work through you
and to move you.

Activity feels hard. Inspired action feels wonderful.


Sometimes we must make decisions that somehow, will move us out of a place we need to
change our position in. And even though we sometimes are not sure what or how to
create change, if we allow ourselves to be still, and to meditate with questions, answers will
come and allow us some kind of result...keeping in mind...doing this
with Love Kindness Patience and Understanding..to ourselves too!!

But as the Teaching says...feel as your are recognizing the activity with the inspiration.
Reread this...see how it feels to you...how it works with you and allow the answers to come.
Sometimes...even hard things...feel wonderful!


Have a beautiful happy safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 140...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 7, 2009

Hey all...and happy day

another beautiful day here
I hope your's is as wel

In keeping up with you want journals..it will help you everyday in determining
simply what you REALLY want...so often we think we want things that would not
really suit our lives, in reality...so concentrate on what you want and how it will
work in your life


©Daily Teaching...Day 140

"[One] of the principal reasons why so many fail to get
what they want is because they do not definitely know what they want,
or because they change their wants almost every day."

"Know what you want and continue to want it. You will get it if you
combine desire with faith. The power of desire when combined with
faith becomes invincible."

CHRISTIAN D. LARSON (874-1954)
Your Forces and How to Use Them


This is why I have been having you write your wants...not the absence of them,
and not what will really work for you , but what you want. And in all of that
by writing your gratitude's, it also increases your ability to realize what you
want and need in your life.....everyday..write these things.


Have a beautifully wonderful happy safe day

much love
Stephanie

Day 139...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 6, 2009

Good morning/afternoon all

what a gorgeous day for a wedding...
I hope you're all feeling wonderfully refreshed

I say this often..today's teaching
it is sooo true.


©Daily Teaching....Day 139

There are two kinds of people:

Those who say, "I will believe it when I see it"

And those who say, "To see it, I know I must believe it"


Faith is believing in the Unseen!



Have a beautiful safe day


much love
Stephanie

Day 138...sharing Daily Teachings and ©Stef's thoughts June 5, 2009

Hey all...

our rain is with us still, but should be clearing out by tonight..
we did need the water for sure.
I hope you're all refreshed and feeling good


We all are learning as we go, day by day. Nothing is ever constant, but with practice
we can achieve a more positive life, by believing ourselves.


©Daily Teaching...Day 138

The process of creation is always about you getting yourself into harmony with what
you want. It is never about the law of attraction. One day you think good thoughts,
then the next day not such good thoughts, and the next day good thoughts, and so on.

The permanent state of believing without a shred of doubt is something you have to
learn, and you get better and better at it with practice.



This is very good to know and understand, for even though we are learning soo much here,
we still are learning so much here. We still are on our journey's of living life in a more
positive, fuller, richer state...and by doing the things we are learning here, it helps us
each day...as each is a new day. A day we can sometimes start over, for yesterday we
may have had great doubt....and that is ok..it is also a part of our journey's.
But I commend you all on being present in this each day, for as I have said many times,
you are the stone that touches the world, that touches the world...that touches the world.
So don't give up, on what you are doing, but if you need to change today from yesterday,
through recognition and realization....to be more positive, then simply do it....
there is nothing holding you back...it's all right within your abilities.
You know many tools and many ideas on how to change your thoughts...which
change your feelings, which change your life...and your world around you.


Have a beautiful wonderful happy safe day

much love
Stephanie