Hey good morning/afternoon everyone
it is a gorgeous morning here in mid NC
and we are expecting a beautiful day in the 70s..
See how today's teaching really affects you and your interaction with people.
Keep your journals and gratitude's going..I love find new ones lol
©Daily Teaching...Day 88
When you focus with someone on a problem they are having, you are not
helping them or you, because you are both adding energy to the
problem. You are also both attracting more "like" problems to you.
Knowing this, it's very import for you and the other person to focus on
what you both want. The person with the problem should be encouraged
to speak about what they want instead of about the problem, which is
what they don't want. The problem arose in the first place from the
person thinking or talking about what they don't want, so the chain of
reaction must sop. Help those close to you by encouraging them to
speak the works of what they want. That is always the solution.
Now, this is not to say you can't listen to your closest people and their stuff,
remember my friends...we're making changes here...because when we
wanted to do this..we wanted change...take yourself back to that sometimes..ok
This is not about being ruthless and/or not helping/lisitening/caring to
with the people we love in our lives..it is about change..on every level...So when
we are in a situation of listening..to venting..to tears to cries for help...and
everything in between...let's listen with new ears...we usually know their life
and what is going on..what has happened...So in this change we are making
in our own lives...how do we help them NOW..how do we listen with new ears
and not get caught in it and yet be compassionate to the ones we love...well
as it says..."encourage them to speak about what they want, instead of about
the problem, which is what they don't want"...especially if they don't understand
about this we are learning here..about the law of attraction...and yes sometimes
all they want is someone to listen to them..to care...we can still do that...but
remember the change we are making in our lives..all aspects of our lives..which
will include how we interact with people..even the ones we love...This can be
much easier when listening to and being around the gossipy people...we don't
really want to be around...but when this is around people we love...it gives
us opportunity for change..and how we do this...comes from our learning..here.
It will be different for everyone and every situation...but remember what they say
can affect you....keep that in mind...with a blending of the love you have for them too.
Have a beautiful wonderful safe happy sunny day
much love
Stephanie
it is a gorgeous morning here in mid NC
and we are expecting a beautiful day in the 70s..
See how today's teaching really affects you and your interaction with people.
Keep your journals and gratitude's going..I love find new ones lol
©Daily Teaching...Day 88
When you focus with someone on a problem they are having, you are not
helping them or you, because you are both adding energy to the
problem. You are also both attracting more "like" problems to you.
Knowing this, it's very import for you and the other person to focus on
what you both want. The person with the problem should be encouraged
to speak about what they want instead of about the problem, which is
what they don't want. The problem arose in the first place from the
person thinking or talking about what they don't want, so the chain of
reaction must sop. Help those close to you by encouraging them to
speak the works of what they want. That is always the solution.
Now, this is not to say you can't listen to your closest people and their stuff,
remember my friends...we're making changes here...because when we
wanted to do this..we wanted change...take yourself back to that sometimes..ok
This is not about being ruthless and/or not helping/lisitening/caring to
with the people we love in our lives..it is about change..on every level...So when
we are in a situation of listening..to venting..to tears to cries for help...and
everything in between...let's listen with new ears...we usually know their life
and what is going on..what has happened...So in this change we are making
in our own lives...how do we help them NOW..how do we listen with new ears
and not get caught in it and yet be compassionate to the ones we love...well
as it says..."encourage them to speak about what they want, instead of about
the problem, which is what they don't want"...especially if they don't understand
about this we are learning here..about the law of attraction...and yes sometimes
all they want is someone to listen to them..to care...we can still do that...but
remember the change we are making in our lives..all aspects of our lives..which
will include how we interact with people..even the ones we love...This can be
much easier when listening to and being around the gossipy people...we don't
really want to be around...but when this is around people we love...it gives
us opportunity for change..and how we do this...comes from our learning..here.
It will be different for everyone and every situation...but remember what they say
can affect you....keep that in mind...with a blending of the love you have for them too.
Have a beautiful wonderful safe happy sunny day
much love
Stephanie
